The reason people try fucking in places other than the bed (i.e. the couch, kitchen counter, shower, back seat, etc etc) is because variety is the spice of life - particularly your sex life. Using these different locations, furniture in them is a great way to try new positions that are impossible to try on a flat surface like a bed. But what about unique BDSM Furniture?
It should come as no surprise at this point, that people have begun making purpose-built BDSM furniture to fuck on.
Let's look at 11 unique pieces. Ranked in no particular order. Or you can skip ahead by clicking on something that takes your fancy in the table below...
BDSM Hand Stocks
What are BDSM hand stocks?
BDSM hand stocks are similar to handcuffs in that they restrain the wrists, but very different in how they achieve that. While handcuffs are, well, handcuffs… Stocks are made with two hinged pieces of (often ornate, like this one) lumber with circles cut out in the middle so that when they close, it’s a solid plank with two holes for the wrists to go through.
Often they will have O-rings attached to them so that they can be hung from the ceiling. These attachment points allow for numerous angles and numerous uses...
How to use BDSM hand stocks in a scene...
Speaking of numerous uses and numerous angles, there are quite a few fun ways to use hand stocks during a scene if you’re creative enough. You can…
- Force your sub to stand with their hands restrained and suspended above their head in the stock. From there, it’s up to you. My choice would be flogging...
- You can do the same position as above, but instead of them standing on their feet, have them kneel with their hands stuck above their head. Proceed by making your sub do whatever they do best while on their knees…
- If you have a service slave, make them wear the hand stocks to keep their open hands nearby. Use them as your drink holder while you’re watching TV.
Our Top Pick
These beautifully hand crafted stocks are made from New Zealand pine and are HEFTY. For this piece of equipment, however, hefty BDSM furniture usually means well crafted. And these things are.
The wrist holes are “adjustable” to two sizes with the leather inlays - which are beautiful and comfortable at the same time - meaning they’ll fit most wrist sizes.
The four loops attached at each corner are perfect for using chains to suspend this stock in the air and are incredibly sturdy for even the roughest play.
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Neck Stockade Set
What is a neck stockade?
A BDSM neck stockade is similar to the hand stockade both in construction and function, but instead of going around the wrists, it goes around the neck. Like the hand stock, it can be suspended from the ceiling by two chains (usually with a “triangle chain” to keep it level).
How to use a neck stockade safely
Any time something is going around anyone’s neck, there need to be extra steps taken to ensure the safety of the person wearing it. The absolute most important part of using a neck stockade is making sure whoever is wearing it has solid ground to stand on to avoid falling and having all their being held up by their neck. Also instruct your sub to use a safeword sooner rather than later when it comes to being released from the stockade, because if their legs give out, again, their weight will be suspended by their neck.
As always, safe kink is sexy kink. Using BDSM furniture means you have to keep this in mind EVEN MORE.
Our Top Pick
This stockade is an absolutely stunning piece of craftsmanship, including the wood case it comes in. It’s heavy duty and built extremely well with a rustic look that would look amazing in any dungeon.
It’s a complete set that comes with everything you need to begin your scene, including ceiling mounts and two just-shy-of-six-feet long chains. This stockade will last you many years even with rough and regular use!
You spend money on quality furniture, so why not do the same when purchasing BDSM furniture? Makes sense.
BDSM Queening Chair
What is a queening chair?
A queening chair (which is, ironically, built more like a stool) is a piece of furniture that a woman can sit on, with an empty space in the middle of the seat, allowing room for someone’s face to also sit on. If you’ve ever heard of (or seen, or tried!) face-sitting, it’s the same principle, but there’s a chair for her to comfortably sit on while she’s being licked.
What’s a queen without her throne, right?
How to use a queening chair?
The basics of using a queening chair are pretty basic. Someone lays on their back with their face directly underneath the hole in the chair, then the queen sits on the chair, and subsequently, a face. Of course, this in and of itself is a great way to have fun, but you can add some fun by combining queening with some added stipulations.
Spice up queening by adding a kinky demand such as “You’re not allowed to stop licking until I say so!” Or set a minimum time limit. Or an orgasm quota. You decide what you want, you’re the queen after all.
Our Top Pick
This thing is the Cadillac of all queening chairs. It’s got everything you could ask for, including: wrist restraints on the side of the box, an inflatable pillow allowing for perfect height adjustment, and head clamps on either side of the pillow to prevent my head from moving.
The solid Red Oak is as sturdy as it is beautiful, and my girlfriend felt confident she could move any which way over my immobile face to use me as she pleased. I must say, given the positioning, I felt pretty safe, too.
Between the gorgeous look and quality of the chair and its ability to restrain my head and wrists underneath her, this should be called the Queening Throne!
Sex chair
What is a sex chair?
A sex chair is a piece of BDSM furniture that’s meant to be sat on by a woman, with a hole in the seat so that a male underneath can penetrate her. Basically, it’s a fun new way to experiment with girl on top - especially because the elastic seat straps allow for bouncing. It provides extra support for the person on top, giving them more stamina to keep the fun going longer!
How to use a sex chair
A sex chair is usually best for woman on top variations. This is because it’s mainly used by placing it over an erect male laying on his back, then having the woman sit on top. This chair makes switching from cowgirl to reverse cowgirl (and back!) a piece of cake. Whichever way she’s facing, the bouncing action will surely add some visual appeal to any romp on the chair.
Our Top Pick
This thing checked off all the boxes for us. It’s the right height, bouncy, and somewhat easy to store in the back of a closet.
As for the performance, it’s top notch. For us, the height of the seat and the bounciness of the straps gave us the best girl on top sex we’ve ever had. She was able to ride harder and longer with the added support and used the metal bars for stability during some pretty intense riding.
She feels comfortable on top, and I feel safe laying underneath thanks to it’s sturdy construction.
For scientific purposes, we checked to see if this would also work as a queening chair.
(It does.)
Sex Swing
What is a sex swing?
A sex swing is a piece of BDSM furniture that usually has a pad for one’s back, butt, and stirrups to hold their legs. It’s used to suspend one person - sometimes from a door frame, sometimes from the ceiling - while the other stands in order to have sex, usually in different positions than you can have on a bed.
There are different types of swings - leather, web style, or a “pig sling” - and we’ll cover the similarities and differences in the next couple of sections.How to use a sex swing/sling
Sex swings can introduce you to a whole new slew of positions that would otherwise require you to be an acrobat, gymnast, or contortionist. Swings allow for longer durations in more “exotic” positions, like being held and fucked up against a wall for instance.
What previously required lots of upper and lower body strength (and stamina!) is now much easier since the swing is doing the load bearing part, allowing you to focus more on blowing your load. And that’s only just one example of the many positions you can try!
Our Top Pick
This is our top pick for a few reasons: it’s got a pretty high weight rating (350lbs/158kg), it’s ability to rotate, and sturdy construction while still being comfortable. The back, butt, and leg rests allow for maximum support and comfort without sacrificing maneuverability.
We hung this from our bondage frame and we tried out as many of the “traditional” sex positions in it. ALL of them were a lot more fun on the swing than on the bed. This sex swing will change your sex life from the very day you get it and you’ll want to continue to use it for years to come! (At least, we do…)
Leather Sex Sling
What is a Sex Sling?
A sex sling is very similar to a sex swing, but provides a bit more body support. While a swing usually has pads to hold the back, butt, legs (and sometimes head) separately, slings are often one piece to hold the entire body (and stirrups to hold the legs).
Our Top Pick
Right out of the box, you can tell this thing means business. It’s thick black leather and weighty feel makes us confident this thing will last us years and years.
We used chains (not included) to hang this from our ceiling mounting points and they definitely add to the kinky feel. That kinky feeling continued well into our time trying this thing out. The most fun part of this was our ability to use swinging momentum from the chains to turn missionary into MISSIONARY.
She felt super comfortable laying on this. She said, and I quote “The pillow’s a nice touch.”
Pretty adorable considering she’s talking about a leather and chains BDSM piece fit for even the most decked out dungeon.
Web style sex sling
What is a web style sex sling
A web style sex sling is similar to the above, but instead of one flat sheet of leather, it’s a few leather straps riveted together to create a web style platform to lay on. The biggest difference we noticed was the extra airflow. On the above sling, my girlfriend commented that the sweat from her skin created a bit of a slick surface, which she actually liked. But if the thought of being all sweaty on leather doesn’t appeal to you, this is your best option.
How to use a web style sex sling
You can use this sling the same way you can use the above - to discover new positions that are otherwise impossible without one. Using different chain lengths to position the sling, you can make it horizontal for missionary or you can make it more upright. You can even have her laying on her back with her hips higher than her head for a more “piledriver-like” position. Honestly, your options are nearly endless.
Our Top Pick
Just like the last one, right out of the box you can tell this means business. It will look right at home for the pièce de résistance of your dungeon. After all, it’s good enough for American Horror Story.
This swing is super sturdy and provided us with hours of fun while discovering different positions. It provides support in all the right places and with all the chains and D-rings in all the right places to clip some bondage cuffs to for added thrills.
You can use chains or rope (neither are included) to suspend this from the ceiling, but we chose chains as both of us think it looks cooler and definitely adds to the feel. The sound of metal clanging and clinking as we got to the rough stuff just adds a more BDSM-y feel to the whole experience.
Pig sling with stirrups
What is a pig sling with stirrups?
A pig sling is very similar to the above styles in both looks and function. As far as I can make out, the biggest difference is the name. Since BDSM furniture is fairly new, some of the pieces come with similar names. Which is why we tried to cover as many different types as possible here.
How to use a pig sling with stirrups?
The best way to use this pig sling is: often.
The perfect way to experiment with different positions, this sling offers nearly unlimited adjustability. The positions you can get yourself (or someone else!) into with this thing are limited only by what your filthy mind can come up with. Our suggestion? Try it out for yourself!
Our Top Pick
This one is great because the lower part of it gives a bit more support in the hips. My girlfriend commented that the extra hip support made her feel like she was being cradled by this sling, which she liked.
Personally, black and red together is my favorite color combination and this makes for a great look in any dungeon (or bedroom).
Pro tip: Your BDSM furniture should match your drapes wherever possible 😉
This one is made of vinyl, not leather, so it’s the perfect choice for vegans who don’t want to use leather products.
BDSM Sex Ramp
What is a sex ramp?
A sex ramp is a piece of BDSM furniture built with purpose-built wedges used to prop up certain body parts during sex, much like you’d use a pillow. Think of it like a small couch, but unlike a couch, a sex ramp can be arranged and rearranged to enhance any and every position you can think of.
How to use a sex ramp
Much like many of the BDSM furniture pieces we’ve talked about in this article, this one adds so many options to create new positions or to spice up positions you’ve already done thousands of times! A sex ramp will add support where you want it and allow you to try different angles of penetration.
Our personal favorite position using this ramp was folding her in half on her back, with her legs together and her feet behind my ears. The ramp allowed us to fuck at an angle that she felt I could pound her harder and deeper - which, is nice.
Our Top Pick
The best thing about this is that it comes with two different sized wedges that can be used separately or used together, like an adult set of building blocks to create any position you like.
The padding is firm enough to support two people and soft enough to be comfortable. The microfiber casing feels great on your skin and it’s super easy to remove and throw in the washer machine to clean it.
We were apprehensive that this would provide a much better experience than simply using a pillow, but we were wrong. It is absolutely better than a pillow and is sure to provide you with inspiration for trying new positions and recreating “traditional” positions with a new filthy flare!
Sex position restraint
What is a sex position restraint?
A sex position restraint can be a few different things, but what all of them have in common is that it usually restrains one body part to another in, you guessed it, a certain position. It can be ankle cuffs that tie behind your neck to keep your legs spread back. It can be wrist cuffs that bind your hands to another part of your body. There is no shortage of combinations you can find that are sure to add a new kinky aspect to your sex life.
How to use a sex position restraint in a scene?
As a male, I enjoy getting blowjobs. I chose this particular one because when I saw it, I immediately thought of how effective it would be to keep my girlfriend on her knees and her wrists bound to her thighs. So I put it on her and enjoyed a little while of a hands free blowjob where I was in control. A Dom’s dream.
We also used this on her back to keep her hands by her sides and her legs bent back during missionary.
I’d recommend trying both.
Our Top Pick
Again, I chose this one with the above ideas in my head and it did NOT disappoint. The cuffs are super comfortable and will fit most people. One of the best aspects of this is that the cuffs are detachable and can be used separately from the whole kit.
The velcro straps are super easy to get on and off very quickly yet are strong enough that they never came undone during use.
Aside from what I described above, we also tried using these for doggy style and it was fan-tas-tic.
Protective Bed Throw
What are protective bed throws?
Have you ever slept in the wet spot in the bed? It’s not the most pleasant feeling.
A protective bed throw is a water (and bodily fluid) proof bed sheet used to protect the mattress from getting wet. A high quality throw (like the one below) will be just as comfy as it is waterproof, making it a great choice for even the nastiest, messiest sex.How they’ll help you take your scenes up a notch
Not only are your scenes kicked up a notch (think watersports or squirting play) because you’ll be able to do them on the bed, it’s really your post scene sleep that will benefit. Now you don’t have to play rock-scissor-paper to decide who sleeps in the wet spot, because with a protective throw, there is no wet spot! Simply remove the sheet, toss it in the washing machine, and sleep in a nice, warm, comfortable, and dry bed.
Our Top Pick
We chose this one because we like the look of black BDSM furniture in our bedroom, goes with our decor. We were extremely pleased not only in how well it worked to repel any fluid, including lube (not a single drop on our mattress!) but also how it feels on your skin. It feels slightly rubbery, but it’s a wonderful surface to fuck on.
After we were done, we threw it in the wash and cleanup was as easy as that.
Over the door cuffs/restraints
What are over the door cuffs?
Over the door cuffs are cuffs used to bind your wrists together, then attach your bound wrists to the top of the door frame - most often between the door and the frame with the door closed. They’re a perfect way to restrain your partner’s arms above their head, leaving them vulnerable to whatever you decide to do next.
How to use over the door cuffs in a scene
The way we used these cuffs was for a flogging scene. Usually when I flog my girlfriend, she is standing with her chest and hands pressed against the wall.
With this, I put her in a similar position but the door cuffs prevented her from moving her hands. It definitely added to the “I’m the Dom, you’re the Sub” aspect of receiving a flogging.Our Top Pick
This one is great for two reasons: it’s easy to set up and it’s strong enough to withstand a little bit of pulling.
The velcro straps are extremely easy to get on and off (good in any bondage situation) and were comfortable for her to wear, even for longer durations. The actual mechanism that holds it in place above the door is as simple as it is genius.
Simply drape the restraint over the door, then close it. The wooden peg gets stuck between the two and whoever’s tied to it will be immobilized for as long as you decide to leave them there.
CONCLUSION
BDSM furniture is perhaps the greatest way to enjoy new positions, angles, and opportunities. Be it from added support allowing for positions that otherwise require a lot of strength and stamina or just creating the perfect angle for a new take on an old position, a piece of BDSM furniture will add a ton of spice to your sex life.
One of the biggest aspects for our enjoyment of these toys was that fact that we got to try all new different things and we found the thing that provided the most variety was the Liberator Sex Position Wedge Ramp Combo.
Just looking at this thing makes the wheels in one’s dirty mind turn, thinking “Ooooh, I could position him/her like that!” If you’re anything like my girlfriend and I, you’ll want to try that new position as quickly as possible.
I’d suggest you get to it with as much eagerness as we did!
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