About Us

We’ve put together the most open, unbiased, 'open the up the box and have play' sex toy and advice site around. All to give you little ‘poke’ in the right direction and have a lot of fun and giggles along the way. We've created that safe space for you. Escape Vanilla is a place where we explore the best toys and tips. The goal is self exploration and powerful orgasms are a nice byproduct. Escape Vanilla was founded by two Kinkster's Andy and Kendra... 

Meet Kendra. 

Hi, I’m Kendra and I proudly hold the title of “The Dirty One”. I’ve always been fascinated by sex and everything that goes with it. Seriously, even as a little girl, I was more curious than most. 

My fantasies were vivid. Not to get too graphic (this is the first time we’ve met) but I didn’t know how to feel about them.

Truth is… at the time I thought I was weird or there was something wrong with me. Like I was a pervert or something.

Thankfully, in my teenage years, the internet was born! I finally realized I wasn't alone. Once that weight was lifted off my shoulders all hell broke loose.

I can’t even walk in the supermarket and see a cucumber now without cheeky grin the urge to take it home and “cook” with it. 

I’ve done it all. Seriously.

I’m as comfortable with a 10-inch dildo in my hand as I am with a pen. That’s why I started this site. I want to empower women everywhere to explore what excites them. Fully.

I lead by example as the “chief” Escape Vanilla pleasure-seeker 😉

There’s not a lot I haven’t tried so I urge you to try me...

Now let's introduce Andy...

Hi, I’m Andy.

I truly believe men should be able to have as much fun as women with sex toys. Without any shame, guilt or judgment.

Not only that. 

We can all have a richer, more varied sex life if we use them the right way. With ourselves and our partners. 

I’m straight (well, maybe a little queer) but I am open to exploring my sexuality in  “safe spaces”. 

I’m still on a journey of finding out exactly what makes me hot under the collar. And crucially what doesn’t. 

This exploration is my passion. You’ll regularly catch me at kink clubs and sex parties trying new things 😉

I am a hedonist at heart. I love pleasure and feeling good. 

On this journey, I will uncover the best sex toys for men. Then I will share my findings with you here.

I understand that what I like might not be what you like. But it's all good. Remember, There’s no judgment here.