When you’re dating a woman, you want to treat them like a queen, right...?
And if you’re interested in more… kinkier activities, there’s a position your partner can use to assert her queenly dominance.
Queening is the act of a woman sitting on their partner’s face. You’ll probably recognize it by its more common name: face-sitting. But this position has been around a lot longer than you’d originally think.
Evidence of queening was found in several different cultures such as ancient China, Japan, India, and even Victorian and Medieval Europe.
If their husband wasn’t available, queens and other upper class women often used face-sitting as a way to get themselves off without risking pregnancy. Most of the time, it was the job of male servants to get the job done.
So, if you want to quite literally treat your woman like a queen, consider getting one. We are going to give you some more information on Queening chairs below. But, before we dive in why not download your free infographic, to discover 13 highly sensitive erogenous zones...
Queening Chairs: Face-Sit in Style
Face-sitting can be a bit risky. When your partner is sitting on your face, they could smother you with their ass and vagina.
Lucky for us, queening chairs exist to lower the risk and provide a comfortable oral experience for both you and your partner.
Now, as a rule, the general build of queening chairs is pretty much the same. There’s a padded seat for your partner to sit on and get eaten out, and then there’s some kind of cushion or strap to hold up your head while you pleasure your partner.
Compare that to regular face-sitting where your partner has to essentially squat while she sits on your face it’s a much better experience and saves those quivering leg muscles a strenuous workout.
Best Queening Chair Position Enhancers?
Position enhancers are a good alternative to "full on" Queening chairs.
They are less overwhelming and more fun! If you are a beginner, consider getting one of these instead.
We recommend the Bondage Boutique Sex Position Enhancer Chair.
Perfect if you have no space and want to be discrete. This is better value if you want to try the experience out before investing in a more opulent throne 😉
Who Can Use a Queening Chair?
While the term ‘queening’ makes it sound like only women can be oral recipients, queening chairs are made so that anyone can sit and get tongue-fucked. These chairs allow for your ass to be eaten in addition to your vagina so men are welcome to join in on the fun!
Despite this, as I’m often the pleasure giver...I’ll be speaking from that point of view.
What is a Smother Box?
A smother box is just another name for a queening chair. The names are somewhat interchangeable since their function and build are pretty much the same. So don’t worry about getting the wrong product if it isn’t called a queening chair.
And that's it really...Pretty straight forward if you ask me.So, now that you have some idea what a queening chair is, let’s take a look at a few I’ve picked out to look at more closely.
Best Queening Chair Product Reviews
DOMINIX Deluxe Faux Leather Sex Position Enhancer Chair
The DOMINIX Deluxe provides a nice padded seat for you to sit on. So you can go to town on your partner in complete comfort.
It’s probably one of the most comfortable queening chairs / position enhancers I’ve ever used and everyone who’s ever used it with me agrees.
With other chairs, I’ve had to lay on the floor and while it’s not going to hurt me or anything, it’s a bit uncomfortable which is distracting when I’m trying to give the best possible oral.
I think the only thing that’ll cause someone to pause before purchasing would be the looks. It's a bit basic. But that could suit more minimalistic folk.
I must admit: at first, sitting on a toilet seat feels a bit awkward given that there’s a person’s face underneath it. With that said, once you start using it, that feeling quickly fades.
As a matter of fact, the toilet seat is the perfect piece of equipment for what this is used for. Because it rocks, it’s easy to stay on there for a long time without your legs going numb. And believe me, you’ll want to stay on there for quite some time.
The rocking motion offers you the control you need to make sure the giver’s mouth is positioned exactly where you want.
The build quality is fantastic; you’ll have no worries about it supporting you and making sure you don’t fall onto the person’s face below you. It allows for TOTAL relaxation.
Let me begin this with a pro tip: the handles are best used for the giver to pull themselves closer to the receiver, not the other way around.
With that said, the handles allow the receiver to squirm, wriggle, and writhe in pleasure without fear of falling off.The handles are great for both participants, but it’s still obvious who’s in charge here. The build quality is as high as it can be.
And the 3 adjustable heights make the chair one size fits all, especially with the pillow (sold separately).
It’s easy to break down and store when not in use, and it’s light enough and the chair bag (again, sold separately) is discreet enough to take to your partner’s place or your local dungeon.
Mastermind Crafts Smother Box
If you’re looking for something that's less of a strain on your wallet, but still extremely high quality, this queening chair is for you! This piece of furniture is made out of stained hardwood.
This chair also comes with wrist restraints that you can use if you want to work in a little bondage play. Personally, I find being restrained while giving mind blowing oral super arousing. I just get so hard and the best part about it is that I can’t even jack myself off.
Does that sound like torture? ‘Yes’, but that’s why I like it as much as I do!
LeFreakshowNYC Queening Chair
This next chair looks a little different from the previous products we’ve looked at...
There are straps to hold your head up, rather than a cushion to support your head. I don’t mind a cushion but I think the straps work better. While a pillow is all well and good, there isn’t as much adjustability as there is with the straps.
When I use the LeFreakshowNYC, I find that it’s much easier to work with my partner without having to move around to get a better angle. This translates to better oral for my partner so we’re both all-around much happier.
I think the one thing I’m not too crazy about is the design. It’s definitely functional and it’s not ugly per se, but it’s nothing to write home about. I much prefer the look and feel of the BDSM MöBEL below but prefer this chair in terms of functionality.
Talk about a predicament!
BDSM MöBEL Queening Chair
Here’s a queening chair that looks absolutely stunning! You could put this in your living room and people probably wouldn’t be able to tell it’s for facesitting.
Unless they’re well acquainted with the BDSM world, but in that case, they’re not gonna judge you for owning one.
Like the LeFreakshowNYC this one also comes with adjustable straps so you can get the perfect height for face-fucking. It’s super easy to adjust the straps and overall this chair is a blast to use!
But, I do have to say, I’m not completely crazy about the height of the thing. It’s much taller than the usual queening chair and as such, I noticed I had to crane my neck a bit to get a good angle with my tongue. It wasn’t enough to cause a lot of pain, but after a while of use, I found my neck was a little sore.
If you’re planning on using your queening chair for long periods of time, I would suggest either getting some pillows to prop your back up with or invest in a different chair.
My favorite queening chair would have to be DOMINIX Deluxe Chair. I love how comfortable it is to use and I just can’t get over how well crafted it is! The wood is beautifully painted and the whole thing just screams class and sophistication. It’s as beautiful as it is functional.
If this article has convinced you to pick up one of the chairs on this list, I encourage you to pick the one that best suits your tastes and budget. They’re all incredibly well made and I’m sure whoever is sitting in the ‘throne’ will be incredibly happy.