We publish regular BDSM content. You'll find some of our best pieces below. Enjoy!
Our General BDSM Articles
Start with learning about 10 BDSM facts. These will surprise you!
We believe that it's is fun, healthy and beneficial. But we cover both sides of the argument in our article on mental health.
Our "How To" BDSM Guides
Femdom is becoming more popular. So we decided to write a full guide on how to do it. Here it is.
Discover how to restore normality after your session Aftercare Guide
Our Furniture and BDSM Toy Articles
BDSM collars and ball gags are a good place to start. We review the best ones in this article.
If you are into home improvements... you might wanna check out our 11 unique pieces of BDSM furniture article.
What Does BDSM Mean?
Bondage. Dominance (or discipline). Submission (or sadism). And masochism.
We've broken each part down below...
Bondage
You restrict the way you partner can move. This is commonly done by tying them up with rope. You can also use other restraints like handcuffs. Bondage can lead to feelings of powerlessness, which can feel like the ultimate form of submission.
Discipline
This is when the dominant partner gives the submissive partner rules. They must obey these rules. Breaking the rules set by the Dom can result in punishment.
Dominance
The "Dom" has sexual power in a given sexual encounter. Meaning: they control the direction of the play. They are in charge. Dominance isn't always sexual. You can dominate someone's mind too like in hypnokink.
Submission
A "sub" enjoys submitting to a dom. This means giving them control in a scene. The Dom decides which BDSMpractices to perform on the sub. And which direction to take the scene in.
Sadism
A sadist enjoys inflicting pain on another person. This is usually in the form of punishment or humiliation.
Masochist
A masochist enjoys receiving pain from another person. This is usually in the form of punishment or humiliation.
You can take this BDSM test to see where you fall on the spectrum.