Aftercare is a BDSM term that refers to the care and attention given to the submissive partner after a BDSM scene or activity. Aftercare can include activities such as cuddling, providing water or food, and checking in on the submissive partner’s emotional and physical well-being. Aftercare is an important aspect of BDSM play as it helps to ensure that all partners feel safe, supported, and cared for.