The absolute best sex toy for beginners is the Lovehoney Mini Wand Vibrator. It’s the perfect blend of affordability and pleasure. However, experienced users may want to try the Fifty Shades of Grey Relentless Vibrations Remote Control Egg. Its contours allow it to move with the vagina instead of against it.
The wonderful world of sex toys is diverse. There is A LOT on offer.
Sometimes it can be overwhelming. So we’ve put together this short guide.
Whether you are simply looking for inspiration or choosing a new treasured item for your toybox…
We’ve got you covered!
Luckily, I've been around the block a few times and I can give you some advice on how to choose the absolute best sex toy for yourself.
In this review, we're going to look at:
But before we get into the review, let's look at what you should consider when choosing a sex toy.
What The Sex Toy Is Made Of...
While most sex toys are made of silicone due to its none porous nature and it being easy to clean, you can occasionally find toys made out of metal or even a 'jelly' type material.
Each of the different materials are going to offer a different sensation. We outline why material is important for safety in this article.
A metal toy allows you to do a little bit of temperature play if that's something you're interested in. Silicone is generally really soft and feels nice to have inside of you or on you.
Jelly materials are usually less expensive than silicone and don't feel as soft. Granted, they're not going to feel uncomfortable, but you're not going to get as great of a feeling as you would if you used silicone.
Do You Want Something That Vibrates?
Vibrators are a the most popular sect of sex toys and as such, they come in many shapes and sizes. If you decide you want something that vibrates, you're going to want to consider a couple of things:
Intensity Of Vibrations
Some vibrators have super strong vibrations and some don't. You'll generally see in the reviews if there's a general consensus on the intensity of the vibrations.
Over time, you'll come to understand what type of vibrations your body prefers and you'll know whether you're more sensitive to vibrations.
Clitoral Vibrations Or No?
There are some vibrators that emulate oral sex by stimulating your clitoris exclusively.
They'll provide not only a vibration but a sucking sensation as well. If you're a person with a clitoris and this sounds interesting to you, consider getting one of these.
Are You Taking It On Your Travels?
If you travel a lot and you want to bring a sex toy with you, consider getting something smaller that doesn't have a lot of wires.
Do You Like / Want To Try Anal Play?
Some people like anal and others don't.
Butt plugs are typically used to stimulate a nerve that runs close to your anus. This nerve is integral to intensifying your orgasms which is why lots of people like to use them. If that sounds interesting, anal play might be for you. Just make sure you use lube and go in very slowly. You don't want to hurt yourself. Also, make sure it has a large, flared base. Getting stuff stuck up your butt is not a fun, nor emotionally relaxing experience.
Now that you know what to think about, let's get into the actual reviews:
Liquorice Dip Butt Plug Set
While providing 3 butt plugs, the Liquorice Dip Butt Plug Set is pretty inexpensive without being made of low-quality materials.
This is such a good set for anyone looking to try out anal play due to the different sizes provided. You can slowly work your way up to the larger size.
Fifty Shade of Grey Relentless Vibrations Remote Control Egg
While being the only love egg on this list, I truly think it's the best.
If you have a vagina and you want to try out a new sex toy, this is a great place to start. The vibrations are super strong.
It is on the more expensive side, which is a bummer. You also might have problems using it by yourself or in public since it's a little loud. But overall, I definitely think this product is absolutely fantastic!
Lelo Luna Pleasure Bead System
If you've ever heard of Ben Wa balls, you've probably heard of this set here. Lelo creates such high-quality products and these beads are no exception.
Designed to strengthen your pelvic floor, these are great for not only providing a little bit of pleasure, but also improving your orgasms!
Talk about a win-win, right?
While you'll need a little bit of practice keeping them in, these are super comfortable and great at doing their job. I do have to mention that if you're in a really quiet environment-- and I mean practically silent-- the balls can be heard clanking around.
Lovehoney Mini Wand Vibrator
If you're looking for a vibrator, but don't want to spend a butt load of money, check out this mini wand.
Just because it's small doesn't mean it can't give you absolutely wonderful orgasms! If you're new to using sex toys, I'd definitely suggest picking up this mini wand. It's great for travel as well! Just slip this into your suitcase and you're good to go!
Lifelike Lover Luxe Realistic Multi Colored Dildo
If you wanted a dildo that was a different color other than the pasty white most come in, then this is the dildo for you!
But color isn't the only area this toy excels in.
It's pretty flexible allowing it to move with your body which is great for maximizing the pleasure you feel. It's the perfect size and girth so it feels great while not causing much uncomfortable stretching. I especially like the little tab on the suction cup to make detaching it easy.
Lovehoney Double Wow Strapless Strap-On Dildo
If you're interested in giving pegging a try but want you or your partner to feel pleasure as well, definitely check out this strapless dildo.
There is a little bit of a learning curve in terms of learning how to keep it in, but once you get accustomed to this toy, it's super easy to use.
Hitachi Magic Wand
You've most likely heard of this magical sex toy. The Magic Wand is one of the most popular wand vibrators that ever existed. It's one of the oldest, too. Created in 1968, this bad boy doesn't look like it's over 50 years old!
And I have to say there's a reason this toy hasn't faded into obscurity through the years. It's incredibly powerful. Even though it was originally just a massager, it's incredibly great for getting a great orgasm!
Lovehoney Booty Shaker
So here's a butt plug that throws in a little bit of vibrating action to spice up your orgasms.
While I wouldn't say the vibrations are particularly strong, it's still pretty great to feel those extra vibrations back there while you're getting yourself off in the front.
The size isn't too intimidating, so you can get it inside without much experience using butt plugs.
This toy will have you rolling and screaming in no time. And that's not an exaggeration.
Despite the noises it'll make you make, it's pretty quiet, itself. It's also waterproof so if you want to take it with you into the shower, you won't have to worry about getting electrocuted.
While I was using it, I noticed there was a bit of a learning curve. You'll definitely want to read the manual to figure out how to use it. That's blasphemy, I know, but sometimes the best toys require a bit of reading.
If you don't have this toy already and you're looking to improve your sex toy arsenal, definitely check out this toy.
To Wrap Up Best Sex Toys in 2020...
I would have to say the absolute best sex toy for beginners is the Lovehoney Mini Wand Vibrator.
With a perfect blend of affordability and pleasure, you can expect to have a lot of fun with this little toy without breaking the bank.
Despite its tiny noise problem, you can take this toy with you for travel, or just to your bedroom for a little bit of 'you' time.
But do beware: once you get your first toy, it might be hard to stop at just one. You'll probably have to come back to this list to figure out what toy you should get next 😉
If you're experienced and want to try something new… we recommend the Fifty Shades of Grey Relentless Vibrations Remote Control Egg.
This toy is on the more expensive side, but trust me when I say this is the best love egg out there. Its contours allow it to move with the vagina instead of against it.