April 16

Best Butterfly Vibrator – Ultimate Buying Guide

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For me the Best Butterfly Vibrator would have to be the Dame Eva II. It’s super small and fits in just the right place so my partner and I can still enjoy ourselves without it getting in the way. Also it’s a great toy to use for couple’s sex. 

What do you get when you cross something as delicate and beautiful as a butterfly and something as raunchy as the sex industry...? 

A dope sex toy, that’s what!

Butterfly vibrators allow for a whole lotta hands-free fun! Just put it on under your clothes or wear it by itself for some amazing clitoral stimulation! Seriously, I love how great these little guys feel when I have one on.

Quick note: You might see me mention ‘panty vibrators’ too. 

Just so you don’t get confused this is interchangeable with ‘butterfly vibrators’ as they are kinda the same thing!

But figuring out which vibrator’s best for you can be a bit of a challenge, so I’m here to help you out! Today, we’ll look at:

Our Top 6 Butterfly Vibrators

But why would someone even want to use one of these toys in the first place? Let’s take a closer look...

Hands-free Orgasms - Taking the Work Out of Masturbation

I love hands-free sex-- not because I’m a lazy bastard (although that is very true), but because everything just feels so much better when you’re not experiencing the miscellaneous cramps associated with masturbation. 

Think about it: if you use a wand vibrator, you can develop wrist pains if you hold it a certain way. The same for a dildo or other kind of sex toy except for maybe a buttplug. Those little pains just make the whole experience a little less enjoyable. 

I’ve also found that you don’t have to work for an amazing orgasm. If anything, it feels even better to use something hands-free since you can focus more on playing with those often neglected parts of your body (See our erogenous zones article for more info). 

And let me tell you, I love it when I have an out of this world orgasm. (Don't we all)

Complete Submission - Let Your Partner Control When You Cum

If you have a partner and you want to dabble in a little submission play, this is the toy for you. Just give your partner the remote and let them decide when and how you cum. 

Granted, this type of play isn’t for everyone, but if the idea of giving your partner complete control of your body gets you wet, then you’re gonna love butterfly vibrators.

I personally love any type of toy that lets my partner and I work a little dom/sub play in. There’s an added mystery aspect that sends shivers through my body. 

Good god, do I feel sexy when I’m playing with my partner. I just can’t get enough!

Targeted Vibrations - Give Your Clit the Love it Deserves

As with similar vibes, butterfly vibrators allow you to target the most sensitive part of your body: your clit. 

Ever wonder why you have trouble cumming during penetrative sex? 

It’s because your vagina doesn’t have a lot of touch receptors inside. They’re all in that magic bean. And the beautiful thing about Butterfly vibes is that they target your clit to provide mind blowing vibrations. 

When I first started using clitoral vibrators, I knew that my clit was where all my best orgasms were stored, but nothing could prepare me for the wave of pleasure I felt using that vibe. 

It was like a magical gift from the heavens to give me more pleasure than I could’ve ever imagined.

So yeah. Butterfly vibrators feel a bit like that.

But now that you have a pretty good idea whether you or your partner would be interested in using a butterfly vibrator, let’s get on to the reviews!

Lovehoney Venus Butterfly 10 Function Hands-Free Vibrator

First up, we have a literal butterfly vibrator. Yes, this little guy may be cute, but boy does he get the job done.

This was the first butterfly vibrator my partner and I picked up and man did it set our expectations high. When I put it on, I was floored by how powerful the vibrations were.

But of course, when my partner saw my shock, she just had to ramp up the juice and make me squirm around, begging to cum. 

She’s such a tease.

While I was using this toy, I was impressed by how comfortable it felt. The straps never rubbed in unpleasant places and the butterfly itself fit nicely on my clit. 

That being said, I wasn’t too psyched about the cord attached to the remote because it really limits movement when my partner has it in her hand.While I was squirming, I found that certain positions yanked on the cord and caused the vibe to shift, which really broke a bit of my immersion. It’s hard to act like a mewling sex kitten when your vibrator’s getting yanked this way and that. 

After a little bit of use though, we were able to figure out the best positions to make sure the vibe didn’t shift too much.

Pros

  • It’s so cute!
  • Powerful vibrations for powerful orgasm
  • It’s super comfortable -- no chaffing with this toy

Cons

  • Remote isn’t cordless -- no roleplaying allowed

Here’s a butterfly vibrator that doesn’t quite look the part, but still offers amazing vibrations. Mr. Hook is a long vibrator that conforms to the contours of your body to provide more targeted vibrations. 

And I’m not kidding about that last part; this toy feels amazing! 

I love how strong the vibrations feel when they can get right up against your clit. Couple those strong vibrations with the wireless remote and you’ve got an absolutely delicious exhibitionism cocktail. 

I’ve taken this toy out on the town on a number of occasions to feel extra naughty. Cumming in front of a bunch of people that are none the wiser is almost intoxicatingly pleasurable. 

The only thing I should warn you about is that this toy shouldn’t be used in quiet areas. It’s just a little too loud for those situations, but if you’re in a noisy supermarket or another loud-ish area, you shouldn’t worry about anyone hearing it. 

As always, make sure you test it out at home to gauge how loud it is before you use it in public; you don’t want to get in trouble for being a sexual deviant.

Pros

  • Wireless remote allows for discreet play
  • Fits well for more targeted vibrations
  • Love the sleek design

Cons

  • Can be a bit noisy

Here’s a butterfly vibrator of the strapless variety. The Dame Eva is made of a super soft silicone that sits nice and pretty on your clit for amazing vibrations. If you’re looking for a pure clitoral vibrator, this is the one for you. 

Eva has little arms that sit in between your labia and while it can take a little while to figure out how to situate it comfortably, it’s surprisingly non-invasive while you’re fucking.

My partner and I were having sex one day and we decided to pull out this beauty. Even when I put it on my clit, there was still plenty of room for my partner to fuck me with a dildo; and Eva was never knocked out of place once! 

This beauty’s great for a nice blended orgasm whether you’re getting fucked in the ass or in the pussy. I can’t recommend it enough if you’re looking to spice up your bedroom life.

Pros

  • Strapless design doesn’t get in the way during sex
  • Made of soft, high-quality silicone
  • Great for couples play

Cons

  • Takes a little while to insert properly

Fifty Shades of Grey Relentless Vibrations Remote Panty Vibrator

I’ve covered this vibrator before, but I just can’t get over how great this toy is. The Relentless Vibrations panty vibrator is great for some exhibitionist fun with your partner or even by yourself. 

I love how small the remote is-- it’s about the size of the vibrator itself, allowing for easy concealment in a purse or pocket. 

My partner and I used this during a date night and I swear she was getting more pleasure seeing me squirm around in my seat than I was. One minute she’d turn on a slow vibration mode, then the next, it was on full blast. 

We were having so much fun that I’m 100% sure our waiter noticed something was up. I’m just grateful that he was too polite to say something.

The one thing that really annoyed me was how confusing the instructions could be at times. I noticed that they mentioned one colored light, but the actual toy had a completely different color.

 Luckily, we were still able to figure out how to use it and then it was smooth sailing from there.

Pros

  • Love the stylish design
  • Comes with a wireless remote
  • Remote is small enough for discreet play

Cons

  • Instructions are a little confusing

Here’s another panty vibrator and I have to say, I like the design a lot more than the Fifty Shades of Grey Relentless.

Cheven’s Panty Vibe comes with a little ridge in the middle that runs up against your clit for maximum orgasm potential.

 While the remote itself is a lot more temperamental, the toy as a whole is super pleasurable. I’ve found that the vibrations this toy creates are strong enough that they can create a great orgasm, but not too strong that you start to feel numb or uncomfortable-- something that’s really important when using a vibrator.

My partner and I tried to use this vibe in a similar situation to the Relentless Vibrations vibe and we couldn’t get the remote to work very well. The range on the thing is sometimes unreliable  and doesn’t always work well in a public environment. Needless to say, we’ll be keeping it at home in the future.

Like some of the other toys on the list, this isn’t a good vibe to use in quiet settings as it will probably be heard by other people. So while I loved the design and how strong the vibrations were, I have to admit that this toy was a bit disappointing overall.

I can really only recommend it if you’re only planning to use it in your bedroom, not out in public.

Pros

  • Vibrator has a nice curvature to it so it reaches your clit
  • Vibrations are strong, but don’t cause numbness
  • Wireless remote allows for some exhibitionism

Cons

  • Can be loud in quiet setting

  • Remote has terrible range

Finally, we have a toy that admittedly looks a bit strange. The dildo part looks like your average G-spot vibrator, but then your eyes travel down the shaft and you see a fuzzy little critter that looks like some kind of alien out of a sci-fi movie. 

But despite its strange looks, the Treediride G-Spot Clit Vibe is actually super functional and fun! Just insert the shaft into your pussy and put the fuzzy critter over your clit and you’re in for a whole lotta blended orgasms. 

Despite this toy being a bit bigger than the other toys on this list, I’ve never really had a lot of problems with it falling out while I’m moving around that house. I’ve done housework and made dinner, and this guy stayed in place the whole time. 

And can I mention how great it is to use this while doing mundane shit? I absolutely abhor household chores, but when I use this vibe, everything seems just a little less painful.

(But I’m sure you’re looking for something a little sexier than housework.)

Well, while I don’t really like to use this toy out in public since it’s so large (and a bit too loud), I’ve had tons of sexy nights with my partner. I love to turn this toy on and let my partner fuck me in the ass. And because we’re using this toy, her hands are free to touch all my sensitive body parts to make me cum even more! 

So if you’re looking for something that’ll create an amazing orgasm, this is the toy for you!

Pros

  • Stays in while you’re moving around
  • Love the strong vibes- don’t have to wait long to cum
  • Made of a soft silicone that doesn’t smell

Cons

  • Is too loud for quiet places

In Conclusion…

My favorite butterfly vibrator would have to be the Dame Eva. While I still have a soft spot for the Treediride, I just love the design of Eva! It’s super small and fits in just the right place so my partner and I can still fuck without it getting in the way. Once you get over the initial learning curve, this is a great toy to use for couple’s sex. We won’t be putting it away for a long, long time.


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