January 8

Best Strap On Ultimate Guide 2021

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If you’re looking for the best Strap On out there, I would have to say Lovehoney's Advanced G-Spot Harness Kit is the best choice if you're new or already experienced with using this type of sex toy. 

It's a great size for beginners while also being inexpensive and designed to hit the G-spot juuuuust right.

Whether you're a man or woman who enjoys a little pegging action, you've probably considered getting a strapon. 

These toys can vary in price and style so it's hard to know whether or not a certain strapon is going to be right for you. 

Luckily, I'm here to give you a couple of tips to help you decide which strap on would suit you best.

Here Are Our Top 5 Strap On's:

Best Type Of Strap On Harness

There are three different types of harnesses that strapons come in. 

And while there isn't much difference in terms of function, you'll probably develop a certain affinity towards one or the other due to your personal preference. 

Here are the differences between the choice of harnesses and why you might want to choose one over the other:

The Jockstrap - As the name implies, this harness comes with straps around the hips and across or under your buttcheeks.

The extra straps allow for a little more stability than say, a thong harness. I've found most strapons on Lovehoney have jockstrap harnesses, but you can still find a few of the other types of harnesses floating around.

The Thong - These harnesses appear as a much bulkier thong. They function pretty similarly to a jockstrap harness but don't have the straps across your butt. These look a little better than the jockstrap, while only affecting the stability a little bit. 

The Underwear - These harnesses tend to look like a pair of boxers that you slip the dildo through. I'd have to say these are probably the most stable in terms of keeping the dildo in place. I think these also look the best, but that's all down to personal opinion.

Strapless Or Not?

So you might have heard of strapless dildos. These allow the woman to get some stimulation while penetrating her partner. 

While this sounds like a perfect outcome for everyone involved, you should be aware that strapless dildos can be pretty hard to keep inside of you. 

Because you're aroused, your vagina is going to begin to lubricate itself to allow easy insertion of a penis. 

This is great for traditional sex, but if you're trying to keep a largish object in your vagina, you're going to need some pretty strong pelvic floor muscles. This can be solved with some simple kegel exercises and maybe even some Ben Wa balls

(You can also put on the harness to keep everything in place.) 

The reason I mention this is because you need to have reasonable expectations before you stick that strapless dildo in as it can be really disappointing to not be able to hold a strapless dildo in for the first time.

So if you think you're interested in using a strapless dildo, do consider doing kegel exercises or picking up a harness to keep it in place.

Should I Get A Double Dildo?

A double dildo is exactly what it sounds like: a double-ended dildo.

This is kinda similar to a strapless dildo since both people are receiving pleasure, but some double-ended dildos come with straps to keep it in place so you're probably not going to have to do a lot of kegel exercises to keep it in.

(Which is a plus, if you haven't been keeping up with your kegel exercises, that is.)

Overall, this is a good alternative to strapless dildos since you get the experience of both people feeling pleasure as well as a little more support than a purely strapless dildo.

How Much Do Strap Ons Cost?

As per usual, you're going to want to factor price and the effect it's going to have on the quality of the toy. 

While I do think toys on Amazon are a good starting point for your foray into sex toys, I have to recommend getting a higher quality toy once you've had experience with that certain type and know that you like it. 

I've found that while cheaper sex toys work well in the beginning, they're not very good as a long term sex toy as they tend to fall apart after a while. 

Of course, you should only purchase what you can afford so if you want to get into sex toys, but don't have a lot of disposable income lying around, don't bankrupt yourself!

Now that you know what you should be keeping in mind, let's get to the reviews!

This is the only strapon set in this article that has vibration capabilities, which, unfortunately, makes it pretty expensive. 

Say’in that, this is still a great set for beginners who can afford it. 

I really like kits for this reason since they allow you to receive multiple sizes of a sex toy. You can test out the different sizes without having to go out and buy more sizes. 

There's a small size which makes this great for beginners to use and work their way up to the larger sizes once you decide you're ready for an upgrade. 

You will most likely outgrow it over time, so do keep that in mind when considering whether or not to purchase this kit.

Pros

  • Small size good for beginners
  • Different sizing options

Cons

  • Will probably be grown out of once you get used to using strapons
  • Expensive for those just starting out

The DYLOVER Waist Strapon is the budget toy of this list. 

While it's fairly decent quality, I probably wouldn't recommend it for long term use for the reasons I detailed above in the price section. 

But I still can't deny that this is a good way to get started using strapons without sinking in too much dough. 

The toy itself is pretty easy to use and made of decent enough materials. The size is pretty good for beginners so this is a decent enough introduction to strap on's to see if you like using them in the first place without too much financial risk.

Pros

  • Inexpensive
  • Good size

Cons

  • Will probably have to be replaced (eventually)
Lovehoney Advanced Unisex Strap-On Harness Kit (3 Piece)

While only being a little more expensive than the previous strapon, I'd have to say this is a great toy to pick up if you're new to using strapons even though it says “advanced” in the name.

I’m a fan of this strapon because it's specifically made with women in mind, so it comes with a curved end to hit the G-spot. 

While you only receive one dildo, it's a pretty good size for beginners (Again...Despite the name). 

I found it really easy to use and even though it occasionally slips out of place when getting rough, it wasn't all that hard to get it back into place and get back to the fun stuff. 

I would definitely have to recommend this toy for any beginner as well as anyone else looking to expand their strapon arsenal. It's extremely high quality for the price and makes great orgasms easy to achieve, regardless of whether you're a guy, girl, or somewhere in between. 

Unlike the vibrating strapon kit, you most likely won't have the same problem of needing to upgrade, so you're getting a pretty good product at a much lower price.

Pros

  • Inexpensive
  • Made to hit G-spot
  • Easy to use

Cons

  • Sometimes slips out of the harness if you get too rough
Fetish Fantasy Double Delight Strap-On Double Dildo Set

So now we're getting into more advanced strapons. 

This is a double-ended dildo that comes with straps to offer some extra support while being used. This is a really easy to use toy and it feels great! You can use it in multiple positions without a lot of fiddling around and adjusting the dildo. 

If you've tried strapons before and you want to upgrade to something that allows both you and your partner to feel pleasure, this is a great dildo to do just that. 

It's definitely a lot easier to use than the standard strapless dildo, although the straps are a little weird as they are quite fiddly to adjust. 

While I didn't think it was enough to ruin the whole experience, I definitely would have preferred if they had been a bit more comfortable.

All in all, I would definitely recommend this toy to anyone who wants to up their strapon game but isn't quite sure they're ready for a strapless dildo.

Pros

  • Easy to use
  • Feels GREAT

Cons

  • Straps are a bit weird
Lovehoney Double Wow Strapless Strap-On Dildo 7 Inch

This is the most advanced strapon on this list due to the strapless nature of it so if you’re a ‘Dildo Don” this could be the one for you.

As previously mentioned, if you've never used a strapless dildo and you haven't been exercising your pelvic floor muscles, you're probably going to want to pick up a harness to keep this bad boy in place. 

And once you get used to using it, it's incredibly easy to use. 

The bulb is large enough that it's easier to keep the dildo in compared to other strapless dildos but does take some getting used to due to its larger size however, the shape and length is spot on. 

(My partner really felt full while it was inside of them)

When being worn, the bulb rubs up against the G-spot after every thrust which is such an amazing feeling!

Unfortunately, this one is a little heavy which feeds into the problem of keeping it in, but once you get used to it, this is probably one of the better strapless dildos out there. 

If you're used to using strapless dildos, do consider checking this one out. You most definitely won't regret picking it up!

Pros

  • Once you know how to use it, it's super easy to use
  • Good length
  • Awesome shape

Cons

  • On the heavier side

So, What We Sayin’ About Strap Ons…

I would have to say Lovehoney's Advanced G-Spot Harness Kit is the best strapon to get if you're new to using this type of sex toy. 

It's a great size for beginners. 

Even though it may occasionally slip, I haven't had much trouble putting it back in place. 

These slips are also pretty few and far between so it's not like you're having to adjust every other second.

If you're experienced with using strapons, I would have to recommend you upgrade to Fetish Fantasy's Double Delight Dildo since it gives you the support of added straps while still providing all of the benefits of a strapless dildo. 


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